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| =Intro=
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| First off - Please dont be afraid of these rules. They aren't your typical boring stupid lame rules. They're fun to read :3
| | # :MondoDab: GENERAL SERVER RULES YOU BETTER READ |
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| | - 01.) -Agree to disagree with others on casual subjects 🤝 |
| | - 02.) -Respect everyone's right to entertainment & happiness as long as it is not hurting anyone |
| | - 03.) -Forgive yourself for your own mistakes |
| | - 04.) -If you're uncomfortable with something, politely ask them to STOP. No one can read minds if you are uncomfortable. 🤯 |
| | - 05.) -If someone says stop, you STOP. |
| | - 06.) -PROTECT your friends! Tell a mod about stuff that is sus BEFORE it becomes a problem. |
| | - 07.) -Have all the fun (Or else) |
| | - 08.) -We're 18+ (Besides the few that are here already) |
| | - 09.) -Keep a sense of humor and an open mind! :3 We're here to escape the BS of IRL! |
| | - 10.) -If you fill out ⟝►tell-us-things with "Hey I read the rules!" we will give you a special role. To show that you're cooler than the ones who didn't. |
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| ==How Can I help?==
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| *If you see any rules that are outdated or need to be added/changed, please do so.
| | # 📰 RULES AROUND CONTENT |
| *Staff cannot be online 100% of the time. We rely on regular members to help keep everyone in check too. If you, as a member, spot anything MALICIOUS going on, please take screenshots/recordings, and report to us.
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| | - 11.) -No graphic or illegal content (eg. anything featuring minors in a sexual context, extreme violence or animal abuse) |
| | - 12.) -No mention of kinks related to minors (eg DDLG, age-play) |
| | - 13.) -No mention or discussion of "loli", "lolis" "littles" or anything else related |
| | - 14.) -No politics, religion, controversy, or scandal discussion as it tends to cause drama |
| | - 15.) -Try to keep "depression talk" in the vent channel. If you need access contact a member of Daddy Day Care. |
| | - 16.) -Do not post images of your IRL firearms |
| | - 17.) -Keep the 1099s and W2s to the taxes channel. |
| | - 18.) -No Kofi/Gofundme/Fundings listed outside of your personal wikipage. No commissions outside of 💸⟝self-promo-rizz / wikipage. |
| | - 19.) -Do not dox others or post super personal information |
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| =Rules TL;DR=
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| | # 🥳 RULES AROUND BEHAVIOUR/CONDUCT |
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| | - 20.) -Alcohol, Drugs or anything similar is not an excuse for acting badly towards others. |
| | - 21.) -Don't be a dick. No kink shaming, insults, discrimination or harassment of any kind |
| | - 22.) -If someone is not responding to you, leave them alone |
| | - 23.) -Do not call people out in the chats, if there is an issue speak to a member of Daddy Day Care |
| | - 24.) -Dont say the S zoomer word. Mondo will hunt you down and bonk you (or you'll get a timeout) |
| | - 25.) -If someone blocks you, don't contact them or join voice chats with them in. |
| | - 26.) -We have a bot that blocks certain words, do not try to circumvent it. |
| | - 27.) -Don't use avatars that are excessively lewd or have particles/projectiles/annoying sound/using a soundboard unless the event calls for it |
| | - 28.) Don't get up into people's personal space |
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| *0.) You can do (basically) anything you want as long as you're not malicious. Use what common sense should be! 😉
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| *1.) DONT BE A MALICIOUS DICK, ONLY A NICE DICK AND/OR NON-DICK
| | # 📰 RULES AROUND CONTENT |
| *2.) LOVE AND/OR TOLERATE AND/OR IGNORE EVERYONE :3 (We're all adults. Dont start -OR- contribute to issues. It takes 2 to tango. If someone is bothering you, say "NO THANKS!")
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| *3.) Have all the fun (or else)
| | - 29.) -Keep politics, religion, controversy, or scandal discussion to a minimum (It tends to cause drama) |
| | | - 30.) -Try to keep "depression talk" in the vent channel. If you need access contact a member of Daddy Day Care. |
| ==📐GENERALLY PAINLESS RULES TL:R==
| | - 31.) -Do not post images of your IRL firearms |
| | | - 32.) -Try to keep NSFW images of any kind in the adult channel. Everyone is human, if you're notr sure where it goes feel free to ask. |
| *🚫⛪️🐘🐴👨⚖️🚫0.) The only HARD nono is politics & religion & scandals & controversial subjects outside of pineapple-on-pizza which is not controversial.. Yes they are important. Just like your grandmas famous ham & coleslaw recipe, there is a time and place for them, but this server is not it. Our culture is focused on smiles, lulz, and a place to destress after a hard day with the normies. You are welcome to dm eachother any subject at any time, provided consent is given. If you would like access to a politics server, please ask Mondo. If you are unsure if something is political, please ask Mondo.
| | - 33.) -No Kofi/Gofundme/Fundings listed outside of your personal wikipage. No commissions outside of 💸⟝self-promo-rizz/ wikipage. |
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| *🚫👿1.) DONT BE A MALICIOUS DICK. Be a considerate non-dick. As for snarky jokes and sarcasm, a good general rule is that they're not okay with someone you're not close to, but if the other person knows OBVIOUSLY 100% that you don't mean it, that joke can become funny because they know it's the opposite of what you think. (ɪɴ ᴀʀᴛ ꜱᴄʜᴏᴏʟ, ᴛʜᴇʏ ᴛᴀᴜɢʜᴛ ᴜꜱ, ꜰᴏʀ ᴇxᴀᴍᴘʟᴇ, ᴛʜᴀᴛ ɪꜰ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡᴀɴᴛ ꜱᴏᴍᴇᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴏꜰꜰ-ᴄᴇɴᴛᴇʀ ᴀꜱ ᴀ ᴅᴇꜱɪɢɴ ᴄʜᴏɪᴄᴇ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ꜱᴜʀᴇ ɪᴛꜱ ᴏʙᴠɪᴏᴜꜱʟʏ 100% ᴏꜰꜰ ᴄᴇɴᴛᴇʀ, ᴀɴᴅ ɴᴏᴛ ᴊᴜꜱᴛ ꜱʟɪɢʜᴛʟʏ "ᴍᴀʏʙᴇ ɪᴍ ᴀ ʙᴀᴅ ᴅᴇꜱɪɢɴᴇʀ, ꜱʟɪɢʜᴛʟʏ ᴏꜰꜰ ᴄᴇɴᴛᴇʀᴇᴅ")
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| *🚫🤼♂️2.) We're (generally) adults. Dont start -OR- contribute to issues. Don't police eachother, try to understand eachothers point of view, and don't be afraid to say "Hey, let's not do that." Feel free to report things in #⦦►tell-us-things .
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| *👍😺3.) CONTENT RATING: PLS keep it T-esque.
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| *👍📝📸🔗 4.) Please try to stick to the appropriate channel for conversation. Drop links in #links, Drop pics in #pics. (ᴀᴅᴅɪɴɢ ᴀ ꜱɪɴɢʟᴇ ᴘɪᴄ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴜʀʀᴇɴᴛ ᴄᴏɴᴠᴇʀꜱᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ɪꜱ ᴏᴋᴀʏ ɪɴ everything🍄 , ꜰᴏʀ ᴇxᴀᴍᴘʟᴇ, ʙᴜᴛ ᴛʜʀᴏᴡɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴇɴᴛɪʀᴇ ᴄᴏʟʟᴇᴄᴛɪᴏɴ ᴏꜰ ꜱQᴜɪꜱʜᴍᴀʟʟᴏᴡ ᴘɪᴄꜱ ɪɴ there ɪꜱ ɴᴏᴛ.)
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| *🚫🐼5.) Do not attempt to wear Daniel's panda onesie.
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| =FAQS Pt. 1=
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| 🆆🅴🅻🅲🅾️🅼🅴!
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| I'm your dad, and you better not touch the thermostat!
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| We're a server of empathetic, weird, wholesome, mostly-adults who are now Mondo's children and we are here to have happy, fun, and sometimes crude times!
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| ==💯⏰ ADMIN DM POLICY:==
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| Feel free to DM @Mondo 24/7 365. She loves to be bothered with walls of texts or cat pics or etc. This includes if she fucks up! She is constantly trying to learn and improve, and isn't perfect. Sometimes you need to kick her ass for being a dickwaffle! (and thats ok!)🧇 You wont be judged for reaching out ❤️
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| ==I CANT FIX A PROBLEM I DON'T KNOW ABOUT ==
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| #⦦►tell-us-things - If anything at all is wrong, tell us. If you don't communicate with us, we cannot fix anything. If you have issues communicating, please DM Mondo, but if you -refuse- to communicate with us, then that is on -you-, not us.
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| ==PLEASE READ THE PINNED POSTS IN EACH CHANNEL==
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| They're not there for our pleasure. They're there to -help us help you-. Lots of info is in the pins and on the wiki.
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| ==💌WTF IS THE WIKI?==
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| Where we put stuff you may want to know. Come look at it before you ask a question. http://mondocat.tv/wiki
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| ==I CANT SEE THE CHANNELS!==
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| Please check ⟝►get-channels🚦 and ⟝►get-roles🚥 and self-assign the stuff you want to see ❤️
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| =FAQ Pt 2: Who da fuq is mondo?=
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| ==🆆🅷🅰️🆃 🅰️🅱️🅾️🆄🆃 🅼🅾️🅽🅳🅾️?==
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| ==SOME STUFF ABOUT MONDO==
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| Mondo is a 3X year old biological female, who feels more like a guy, but doesn't care. She is fat, shy, nervous, socially awkward as balls. She has GERD, PCOS, PTSD, Anxiety, Autism, Dysthymia, Pseudo Tumor Cerebri, and a myriad of other issues. Socially, IRL she is unfunctional. Online, Mondo has a fear of casual conversations in DMs and prefers them in group settings, but will make exceptions if you want it ^^ ❤️ ᴺᴳᴸ, ᴹᵒⁿᵈᵒ ʰᵃˢ ᵃ ᶠᵉᵃʳ ⁱⁿ ᵍᵉⁿᵉʳᵃˡ ᵒᶠ ᵍⁱʳˡˢ ˢʰᵉ ᵈᵒᵉˢⁿ'ᵗ ᵏⁿᵒʷ, ᵃⁿᵈ ⁱˢ ᵗʳʸⁱⁿᵍ ʳᵉᵃˡˡʸ ʰᵃʳᵈ ᵗᵒ ᵍᵉᵗ ᵒᵛᵉʳ ⁱᵗ, ᵇᵘᵗ ᵃˡˡ ᵗʰⁱⁿᵍˢ ᵗᵃᵏᵉ ᵗⁱᵐᵉ.
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| Like a lot of the people in this server, she has a traumatic past, but she is an open book and willing to share her trauma, the way she has overcome some of it, the things she hasn't yet overcome, her backstory, and anything else you want to know.
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| Mondo cannot be offended, and that is a challenge to any of you that think you can do otherwise. She is also somewhat of a memelord. Pls give her all the memes.
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| She has led large communities online and in MMOs since 1998, but has been mostly-mute IRL til ~2016. She has 2 cats, Gio and Jojo. Yes that's a Jojo reference. She is shit at video games but will stream them for great lulz. She likes wholesome anime and scifi tv shows. She likes jRPGs, kMMOs, and simulation-type games, like DDR or Harvest Moon.
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| She went to skool for graphic design but did nothing with her degree, and it's a nice piece of paper on the wall as a testament to spending a bunch of money for no reason. She draws some of the emotes though, but prefers editing and manipulation.
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| She cleans manga for translation groups, and works on localizing video games to English!
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| She never stops trying to be more efficient, do things better, learn things more, and this is ultimately a downfall. xD
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| Mondo fucks up a lot, especially socially, and I urge you to DM her and (nicely) tell her she fucked up, so she can fix it. ❤️
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| She doesn't have a bedtime and that is dangerous.
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| IDK what else you want to know, but feel free to ask anything ^_^ ❤️
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| Why is she your dad? Cuz it sounds cool. Plus dad jokes.
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| ==✨WHAT KIND OF LEADERSHIP DOES MONDO USE?==
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| "Hi I'm your dad and I love you with all my heart and I'm here to support you any time you need, but I recognize your need for independence, growth, and even acknowledge that sometimes you need to make your own mistakes." Or something.
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| She's here to attempt to put aside her biases and ensure everybody happy. Everyone is equal here. Everyone is the leader. You are adults, you don't need a babysitter, but what Mondo is, is an anchor. She trust you to do you, to be respectful and kind to your peers, but she is here if you need help.
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| She's literally just the monkey with the wrench. She's here to support you, not the other way around.
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| ==I WANT U TO DO SOMETHING MONDO==
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| She literally have the memory span of a goldfish, so spam her DMs. (or put it in #⟝►suggest-a-thing.)
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| ❤️ AND FEEL FREE TO POKE HER CONSTANTLY ABOUT IT! She will absolutely not get mad ❤️
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| =FAQS Pt. 3: 🅴🅻🅴🅲🆃🆁🅸🅲 🅿🅾🆃🅿🆄🆁🆁🅸=
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| == ARE THE RULES EVEN REAL?==
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| 🙏I also ask, however, in this day and age of a huge cultural shift, that we don't forget to forgive eachother. Noone knows the rules. The rules are always changing. The rules are a SOCIAL CONSTRUCT. We as a society can change anything at any time.
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| People make mistakes, even when the rules are concrete. As humans we NEED to make mistakes. If we didn't make mistakes we would all be robots
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| (Imeanthatwouldtotallybecoolbut)
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| So I WANT you to get out there and be brave! I WANT YOU TO MAKE MISTAKES! A mistake is just one step closer to success! Explore yourself and your peers. Learn and grow together, and let's make this shitty world a better place to be in, one dad joke at a time! Let's make fear, trauma, over-apologizing, and bad stuff a thing of the past that we have bravely overcome in the face of adversary, and embrace love, happiness, growth, forgiveness, healthy coping strategies, smiling a lot, and laughing so hard you almost pee your pants.🤣💦👖
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| == WE ARE WEIRDOS==
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| We're different from most communities in society, and you know what? Society -fucking- sucks. We want you to be yourself. We want you to be able to share everything openly with us. Talk about your favorite frog. Gush about your crush. Tell us the entire backstory history of samurais in Japan.
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| Whatever your hyperfixation is, let's hear it!
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| Most communities put shame on talking about your interests. Fuck them. Tell us all the things (with consideration to the topic restrictions), no matter how small.
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| Most communities frown on doing actions for the lulz or :3 kitty facing everywhere. Fuck them. Kitty face to your hearts content. Equip a monocle and do a fancy thing. Be yourself! Weird bits and all!
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| And there is NO "Feels Bad" Olympics. SHARE YOUR STORIES WITH US! DON'T BE AFRAID! We share our stories, and we heal. There is no competition. ❤️
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| ==🔰I DONT KNOW WHERE TO POST THE THINGS ;_; Halp.==
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| Please check out #⟝►get-channels🚦 for an in depth explanation for what goes in each channel!
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| =FAQS Pt. 4: 🆈🅴 🅾🅻🅳🅴 🆂🅴🅽🆂🅸🆃🅸🆅🅴 🆂🅴🅲🆃🅸🅾🅽=
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| ==REGARDING SELPHIES==
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| If you post selfies, please specify in your post if you would like the following: | |
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| :NOPERS~1: no comments
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| :NODDERS: wholesome comments
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| :pepehehe: joke comments
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| :PepeZip: spicy comments (dm only pls)
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| This is to preemptively make sure no one accidently gets the big sad. And society makes us enough big sad we don't need NO MORE.
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| == REGARDING MINORS==
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| We currently allow minors (~16+) (If you are under 16, please DM mondo, you may still be allowed), but please note the following:
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| If you are a minor:
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| -Discord's TOS requires you to be at least 13 years of age to be here.
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| -Please make sure you talk your parents about online safety and ask them if it is okay for you to be here amongst people of all ages. | |
| -DO NOT POST SUGGESTIVE MATERIAL OF YOURSELF OR OTHER MINORS. IF YOU ARE UNDER 18 WE DO NOT WANNA SEE YOUR THIRSTY ASS CLEVAGE OR REVEALING COSPLAY, THX. | |
| -For the love of god, if you start screaming, we will ban you.
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| If you are not a minor:
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| -DO NOT POST SUGGESTIVE THINGS OF MINORS OR DEPICTIONS OF MINORS OR ANYTHING DIRECTED AT MINORS. UNLESS ITS URSA MINOR. THEN IT IS A BEAR AND BEARS ARE NAKED GENERALLY.
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| -Please keep the channels approx T-rated. (Titles rated T (Teen) have content that is generally suitable for ages 13 and up. May contain violence, suggestive themes, crude humor, minimal blood, simulated gambling, and/or infrequent use of strong language. https://videogamegeek.com/videogamerating/2217/esrb-t)
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| ==REGARDING SEX 'N SEX RELATED SUBJECTS==
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| Sex and cool and all but have you ever considered:
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| -DO YOU GOT PRON? cool, keep it to yourself.
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| -Please get consent before making any sexual related comments towards another member. (Example: FUCKIN SEXY wenis, I WANNA LICK UR KNEECAPS EROTICALLY, etc.)
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| -Please do not make general sexual statements. (Example: I want to touch toenails with all the girls/boys/fig newtons in here)
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| -HOW CRUDE CAN I BE MONDO? T-Rated Crude: https://pixelkin.org/2015/01/14/sex-series-esrb-content-descriptors/
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| -If you pay taxes, make sure your w2s and 1099s are filled out correctly.
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| ==REGARDING ILLEGAL STUFF==
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| -If you do heroin, don't tell us about it.
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| == REGARDING VENT CHANNEL==
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| -If you do NOT want someone to respond to your vent, please put it in a spoiler which is || spoilers || = spoilers and react to it with :VentONLY: . | |
| -Vent channel is for the occasional vent (not daily journaling) about your bad day or maybe explain something bad that happened in your life and asking untrained friendos for help. It is NOT a replacement for real psychiatric help.
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| -We do our best to help everyone with every situation that may happen, but if it is beyond the scope of randos in a discord giving you advice on the occasion, please respect our helpers and get real help. Mondo only has so much dad wisdom. | |
| -If we have given you advice and you fail to take it and keep venting about the same problem, then it is time to get real psychiatric help / therapist. If you dont have the money for a therapist, ask a therapist with a sliding scale option, which has lower (or free) pays.
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| -If your current therapist isn't giving what you need. GET A NEW THERAPIST.
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| -If you have state insurance, there are free counselors and therapists out there. Check what is in-network with your insurance. If you need help with this, just ask!
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| -For more resorces: http://mondocat.tv/wiki/index.php/Mental_Health_Corner
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| -In an emergency? Call 911
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| =FAQS Pt. 5: 🅸 🅽🅴🅴🅳 🅷🅴🅻🅿=
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| ==🤔🤕🤢HEY MONDO, I HAVE A PROBLEM!==
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| Hey, did you know? 👏I 👏CANT👏 FIX👏 A👏 PROBLEM👏 I👏 DONT👏 KNOW👏 ABOUT.👏 Use #⦦►tell-us-things - Let us know about it ❤️
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| 🦵🐎 EVEN IF ITS A MOD OR MONDO THAT UPSETS YOU, THAT IS OKAY WE WONT BE MAD I PROMISE! ❤️ We are very accepting and encourage feedback! (Believe it or not, Mondo is not a robot, but a human, makes mistakes, and thus, needs put in her place sometimes! No judgement!)
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| ==🙋WHAT DO I DO IF I AM ANGEE?==
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| In an emergency - The block button is always an option. Even if you use it temporarily until you've cooled down.
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| ⚽️Think about this - If you don't like something, you don't have to comment on it. Mondo doesn't like sports. She doesn't comment on it. If you wanna talk sports, tag @Great Prophet Cowen. He likes sports. He will talk to you. Feel free to check another channel while people are talking about stuff you have no interest in. Un-role yourself from that category if you can't resist the urge to look.
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| What if it's something bad that made me mad? Think of this - In my opinion, the mature thing to do is think about the motivation behind the act before acting out. - You step on your cat's tail. Cat gets pissed, comes back 5 mins later to snuggle. Cat has forgiven you. Cat knows you didn't mean to hurt him. Should cat be pissed at you? Maybe initially, he will hiss.... But he will come back for them snuggles. Mondo tries to be like the kitty. Snuggle your enemies. Kill them with kindness. (isthatright?) but, actually, uh...
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| Society is constantly changing, and people deal with things in different ways. Hiding from something, joking about it, etc. Be open to education and forgiveness when someone messes up, instead of defaulting to anger and resentment. :3 ❤️ If someone didn't mean to hurt your feelings, try not to lash out at them, but instead try to educate them in DM politely on how they could have handled a situation better. Mondo doesn't let 100% awful people in the discord, so it was probably not intentional to hurt your feelings!
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| 🍍🍕Please remember that most jokes are not meant to harm, and some people use jokes to deal with trauma. For example: I'm fat. I do fat jokes about myself. It's not an attack on you or on fat people. It's how I deal with being and accepting I am fat.
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| Both sender and a receiver of a joke can have the trauma that contradicts each other, and it can be hard to come to a middle ground on who is right, because NOONES trauma outweighs the other persons trauma. There is unfortunately not an easy answer to this one. If something really bothers you, please report it in ⦦►tell-us-things. If fat jokes bother you, LET ME KNOW!
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| So I ask you, above all else, to realize we are all humans. We are built with flaws. And we must learn to tactfully forgive each other for our mistakes, and politely in DMs educate the uneducated. And pineapple on pizza isn't a mistake.
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| andifyouwantsomeadvancedtechniquesthatiuse: https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/managing-conflicts-with-humor.htm
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| ==🦹♂️HEY SOMEONE SAID SOMETHING I DONT LIKE AND I CANNOT DEAL WITH IT. I AM PISSED AND/OR UPSET!==
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| First off, breathe. Take a break from the situation to get calmed down.
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| Step 1: Block the person
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| Step 2: Report em in #⦦►tell-us-things, and move on. We'll deal with them and perform discipline if necessary. It's not your responsibility to deal with them. Life's too short to dwell on the bad stuff for too long, especially when it's not your job.
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| And it is important to dwell on the bad stuff sometimes. Without the bad stuff, we couldn't appreciate the good stuff. :3 But that's another story for another day.
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| ==I WANNA SNUGGLE!==
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| Hewo there! I'm so happy that you are all getting along well with your snuggle partners, but I just wanted to make sure that you make sure to consistently check up with your snuggle partners that they are comfy with all the snugglin'. Believe it or not, not everyone wants to snuggle 24/7 like i do >;3 <3.
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| If someone is snugglin on you when you dont want them to be, let em know! Some people (like me) are dumb and cant take a hint. xD' If someone is still unconsentually snugglin' afterwards, feel free to ⦦►tell-us-things or DM me privately. You aren't making a big deal about something. Your thoughts matter. You matter. If I am snuggling you too much, you have my permission to punch me in the face. 8D. Now get out there and let your love make the world go 'round! (Wholesomely, of course)
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| ==I WANNA HARRASS OTHERS!==
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| NO.
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| Sexual harassment will not be tolerated. If anyone is harassing you please report it in ⦦►tell-us-things to us directly, or DM if you aren't comfortable. We will not stand for such actions and behavior, but we cannot act or investigate if we do not know. No means no. No further reason is needed, respect it. Please be assured that we will investigate and act appropriately on anything that may be reported to us!
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| ==I WANT CHAOS AND TRAUMA DUMPING DURING THE EVENTS!==
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| Unfortunately it isn't the right time for shenanigans such as changing into giant mechs and shooting each other, as some people are sensitive to flashy lights, and others pcs will explode into a flash light itself.
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| It also isn't the best time to vent about your great grandma's half uncle who bullied you out of your Pokemon cards when you were a kid. Or how your parents scared you so much you were scared to say the word pad. ( Thatcouldntbeme:)))) ) Those stories are important. But events are not the time or place for it. We're a pretty empathetic bunch, and it can and does bring us down. The events help us escape the feelies for a bit, it's the closest thing we have to adult heelies, right?
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| You are more than welcome to use the-vent-⁽ᵇᵒᵈʸ-ⁿ-ᵐⁱⁿᵈ⁾ for your bad days or trying to process stuff going on, or asking for advice... You are also more than welcome to dm me (Mondo) anytime, 24/7 and I will listen and/or give you advice as best I can.
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| If you find yourself needing to vent on a regular basis, instead of on the occasion, it is probably time for an actual therapist. (As much as we wanna try, we aren't that cool x3) There is a list for various countries on the wiki, as well as some free online therapists. If you need help finding one, reach out, we will help you! https://mondocat.tv/wiki/index.php/Mental_Health_Corner
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| ==CAN YOU FIX A PROBLEM YOU DONT KNOW ABOUT?==
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| NO, I can't fix a problem I don't know about, so please do not hesitate to dm me about literally anything. You're not a bother. I'm not busy. You are important, even if you joined the server 3 seconds ago. Even if youve never been to an event. Even if I have never talked to you before. You matter!
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| As a dad I am obligated to tell you how it is, and you may not like it all the time, but imo it's better to be honest, even if it hurts a little bit right now, it will help us grow into even awesomer people!! ❤️
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| I LOVE YOU, OK? :3 :MondoSnug:
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| =FAQS Pt. 6: Da Bots=
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| Check #the-void-⁽ˢᵖᵃᵐ-ⁿ-ᵇᵒᵗ𝄞⁾ pinned post for commands!
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| ==HOW TO USE THE BIRTHDAY BOT?==
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| OK SO HOW TO USE THE BIRTHDAY BOT:
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| IN #the-void-⁽ˢᵖᵃᵐ-ⁿ-ᵇᵒᵗ𝄞⁾
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| Type /set (ENTER) to set up your bday
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| Type /list (ENTER) to view everyones bdays
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| -READ THE INSTRUCTIONS-
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| =FAQs Pt. 69: EVEN MORE THINGS!=
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| *Mondo isn't god of everything. You as a member have a right to do anything she does - including these fun activities.
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| **Start, run, and host Tournaments
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| **Adding more rules to the rules page
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| **Updating the member list
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| **Updating or adding new stuff in the wiki
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| **Starting/planning/organizing events such as hide and seek, never have i ever, movie night, etc.
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| **Starting a role play
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| **Starting a community project
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| **Organizing a community screenshot
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| **Making a movie about us
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| **Drawing pictures about us
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| *People make mistakes, even when the rules are concrete. As humans we NEED to make mistakes. If we didn't make mistakes we would all be robots (Imeanthatwouldtotallybecoolbut)
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| *So I WANT you to get out there! Explore yourselves and together your peers. Make mistakes! Get messy!
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| *In my opinion, the mature thing to do is think about the motivation behind the act before getting upset. You step on your cat's tail. Cat gets pissed, comes back 5 mins later to snuggle. Cat has forgiven you. Cat knows you didn't mean to hurt him. Should cat be pissed at you? Maybe initially, he will hiss.... But he will come back for them snuggles.
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| *Because society is constantly changing, and people deal with trauma in different ways, if you don't like something, you dont have to comment on it. Feel free to keep scrolling or come back later. If you ABSOLUTELY cannot talk about something, please privately dm the person and nicely explain to try to refrain from mentioning that topic. Most jokes are not meant to harm, and some people use jokes to deal with trauma. I'm fat. I do fat jokes. It's not an attack. It's how I deal with being and accepting I am fat. (For example.) Both parties can have the trauma contradicting eachother, and it can be hard to come to a middle ground there. There is unfortunately not an easy answer to this one.
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| *So I ask you, above all else, to realize we are all humans. We are built with flaws. And we must learn to tactfully forgive eachother for our mistakes.
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| *Now if someone comes up to you and is actively MALICIOUS, by all means you have the right to be pissed, but is violence the answer? If you ask me, block em and move on with your life. Life's too short and hard for dwell on the bad stuff for too long.
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| *It is important to dwell on the bad stuff sometimes. without it we couldn't appreciate the good stuff. :3
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| *Please don't talk about EXTREMELY socially controversial stuff in public. (Religion, Politics, Etc.)
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| *Don't start drama or contribute to it even if you didn't start it. Let it go.
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| *We love randomness![[image:mondobored.png|right|500px]]
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| *Our purpose is to chat and have fun. Not only about our characters in game, but about our real lives. Tell us "useless" things such as what you had for lunch, what your horoscope says about today, how your dad licked a jeep yesterday, when your cat puked on the floor and your brother stepped in it, etc.
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| *The main language is English. If you need help learning English we might be able to help!
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| *We focus on love and kindness. Come into the community seeking/giving/accepting the love of friendship.
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| *We love jokes, and sometimes they go into grey areas. If something is in a gray area, feel free to ignore it. If something is -particularly- upsetting to you, and you deal with it by avoiding the topic, please respectfully DM the person and ask them to not go so hard on that area of jokes. PLEASE take in consideration, that some people deal with trauma by joking about it. Noone's trauma is worse than others. This is a really hard rule to make because I want everyone to feel free and open, regardless of their ways of dealing with trauma. Please try to be flexible and considerate about this.
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| *Bad days happen. It doesn't make you a bad person. Sometimes all you need is a hug and a "sorry" :) *snuggs*
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| *Be courteous. If you know a subject upsets someone, try not to talk about it while they are online.
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| *Don't upset others. Before you hit enter, re-read your sentence. Think about "Could this be misinterpreted?" If the answer is yes, don't hit enter.
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| *Respect legit wishes. If someone asks you to stop talking about something... please stop.
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| *Don't spam useless crap.
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| *If you have the type of personality that absolutely can NOT let things go without a fight, please sign off, and come back on later when you are calm.
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| *Drama is not allowed.
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| *No throwing prinnies, d00d.
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| *Mondo doesn't help anyone ever, because she's MEAN, EVIL, AND CRUNCHY.
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| *If you think you're being ignored, please ask again. Sometimes messages get missed.
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| *Our chats are random, sometimes making no sense, sometimes involve random Pokemon or Power Ranger battles. If you can't deal with mature, adult insanity, then you will probably not like this community.
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| *Recognize miscommunication happens. Forgive and forget <3
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| *You are allowed to demand pancakes and dinosaur chicken nuggies
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| *Throwing a bucket of protons on top of your negative comments will NOT make them less negative!
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| *All your base are belong to mudkipz.
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| *If you tell a spoiler about things, I WILL SLAP YOU MYSELF. IF YOU WANT TO DISCUSS ANYTHNIG THAT SPOILS ANYTHING, BRING IT TO DM! >:OOOO OTHERWISE SNAPE WILL KILL HARRY WITH DOBBYS SOCK, AND THENS SOMEONE WILL BE ANGRY.
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| *Rules are subject to change
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| *This page will self destruct
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