Rules 2025

I don't want to read all of these T_T

• TLDR Rules: Don't be a dick and you'll be fine.
• Also see Mission Statement

I will read all of these :3

• Hey thanks! There's some instructions somewhere below for your prize.

Piss Happens: If you piss on the floor, clean it up

I want you to be yourself, but I want you to refrain from pissing on the floor, and if you do, it's your responsibility to clean it up. If you think about pissing on the floor... Sometimes you might piss on the floor, especially if you're just a kid and just learning how to piss... and it needs cleaned up. If you're a kid, your parents will probably do it. That's their job. If you're not, it'll kinda suck, but you still gotta clean it up. Because cleaning up piss sucks, as you get older, you take the time to learn how NOT to piss on the floor, and piss in the toilet instead. If you don't take the time to learn how to piss in the proper place, you'll keep pissing on the floor, and everyone around you will step in it and someone has to clean it up. It's fine to need help with this when you're a baby, but when you're an adult... You might fuck up, get drunk, and then piss on the floor, but it's still on you as an adult to clean up your piss. Sometimes, everyone has some piss that lands on the floor for one reason or another, and that's life. Piss happens. What REALLY matters is how you handle that piss. Are you going to take steps to not piss on the floor? Are you going to clean it up if you do? Are you going to subject others to stepping in it or force them to clean it up for you? This is what matters. Not that you pissed, but how you deal with the piss. ....and then there's people like Mondo, who are incontinent! but Mondo lets people know "Yes, I gradually pee myself all day long, BUT I wear a pad to mitigate the piss, and if you happen to find some piss, lmk and I will clean it up, I apologize in advance!" (Thank you Ghosty! <3)

Staff Rules

A. Treat each other, all group members, and themselves with respect. B. Make Mondocat.tv a safe place for participants to be themselves. C. To enforce the rules equally as best as we can with the resources we have, without discrimination of any kind. D. Be open to answering questions, addressing concerns, and being transparent when possible about decisions and actions while maintaining privacy. E. Be positive examples of the community. F. Guide and teach members on various topics, from being the greenest newbie, learning to love yourself, running your own events, to becoming a staff member themselves, and more! G. To make mistakes like any other human being and learn from them and do better. H. Not take unreasonable shit from people being dicks. If someone is not willing to follow the rules, calmly discuss and compromise on a problem like an adult in a timely manner, or are being malicious, they are to be disciplined accordingly, up to and including banning. I. To give people the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise, in the form of "verbal" warnings and a "three strike" system. Extreme exceptions apply. Newbies may be excluded from the three strike system for being extremely sus or "not fitting the community vibe".

Pledge to ourselves and our community mates

By using our server, you agree to our pledge: I $username, pledge to use the chain of command when dealing with issues within my community. STEP 1.) For small issues amongst your friends and long term members, PLEASE say "Hey, I'm not interested in talking about X". BE DIRECT. A lot of us are autistic and can't take hints. Set your boundaries directly, in DM if possible, so there is a paper trail. Say something like "I do not like being cuddled, please do not cuddle with me without asking permission first." not "Idk if im into that rn, hehe. Maybe next time~ <3"   Most people don't intend on upsetting each other. If they seem to be nonmalicious with unwanted behavior (and 99% of the time it is nonmalicious!), talk to them, clarify, or compromise. You can't fix a problem you don't know about and people aren't mind readers.   If anyone is unwilling to compromise, or continues after you tell them to stop, there is -now- a problem that needs investigated. No problem too small. -None-.   It is ACTUALLY irresponsible to wait until a problem becomes big before reporting it.   Please inform us EARLY and OFTEN of suspicious people, so we can keep an eye on them and stop them from hurting others. If you simply do not get along with someone, like, as in, after a breakup, or personality clash, please utilize the block feature of Discord and/or VRC and/or any other platform. #Da-Rules: OUR place in the Chain of Command ━━━━━━━━━━   CHAIN OF COMMAND: WHEN THEY DONT TAKE "NO" FOR AN ANSWER   ━━━━━━━━━━   STEP 2.) Talk to @Daddy Day Care / @Dadmiral privately or anonymously using #⁠🆘⟝support-tickets ⁠ or #⁠⁠📧⟝tell-us-things◄ ! If you choose privately, it creates a private channel to talk about the situation, what solution should work for all parties, and holds mods accountable. The channel stays open until you are happy with the action is taken. (Or you stop responding) 🙂 DO NOT CLOSE THE TICKET UNLESS YOU ARE SATISFIED.   There is an anonymous option, read the channel! You will, however, not receive any feedback on what takes place if anon, and we may not be able to act depending upon the situation.   STEP 3.) If you are, for whatever reason, unable to create a ticket, DM a mod 24/7/365 - No reason too small! No time of night too late. ❤️ We'll help you fill out a ticket.   PLEASE DO NOT just message "We need to talk" and then poof for 5 hours or drop a wall of text into our DMs about an incident.   Let's make a ticket! FACT 4: Relationships are allowed, but you will not use us as a dating website. https://flirtu.al & https://www.nevermet.io are VR dating websites. If you are seen in a pattern of "joining, getting relationship, leaving/going MIA, coming back when that relationship ending, etc" you will be removed from the server. If you do get into a relationship, you are agreeing to not let any relationship drama interfere with the server, etc. Please utilize the block feature if you cannot split amicably. Everyone has their good and bad days, that is expected, but we are not here to play relationship therapist for you. <3 If you are not ready to have a healthy relationship based on trust, 100% open and honest communication, setting and honoring boundaries, focusing on love, learning, and growing together in a committed (mono or mutually agreed upon poly) environment, please do not get into one. Relationships are a lot of work and commitment, so please consider just being friends with snuggle-fits if it fits your needs and you are not ready for a relationship. <3 #Da-Rules: Your place in the Chain of Command ━━━━━━━━━━   CHAIN OF COMMAND: YOU ARE OUR FIRST DEFENSE! NOONE CAN FIX A PROBLEM THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT   ━━━━━━━━━━   #Da-Rules: Reporting Bad Users (NOT A REPLACEMENT FOR TICKET/ANON) ━━━━━━━━━━   ONLY YOU CAN PREVENT FOREST FIRES! REPORT SPAMMERS! (Well, we can too, but then I wouldnt have a cute name for this section)   ━━━━━━━━━━   Report Dat user! New for 2025! If there is something suspicious that doesn't warrant a ticket that doesn't need a response or discussion from you, you can now report right from within Discord! (For example: There is a spammer, scammer, or an inappropriate post)   Use YAG bot in whatever channel the person posted the bad post in!   Type /report Click YAG Fill out User and Reason.   FOR EXAMPLE:   /report user:@Mondocat reason:HER EARS WERE TOO WOBBLY AND IT WAS INTIMIDATING THE NEWBIES!   YAG then logs the last 100 messages and sends an alert to mod chat to check it out! So if mod chat happens to not be paying attention to "FREE HENTAI SERVER, CLICK HERE FOR PENIS ENLARGEMENT PILLS AT ROCK BOTTOM PRICES" in chat, they will now!   NOTE: This is NOT a replacement for tickets or anonymous reporting. This is only to let mods know of inappropriate posts that do not need discussing.   Extensive Rules List If you see something, SAY something! You are not rocking the boat by speaking up, you're sinking it by potentially letting danger in or disrespecting yourself by not upholding your own boundaries! <3 DO: 0. We can't attempt to fix a problem we don't know about. Use #Tell-Us-Things to tell us about something casual or #Support-Tickets when something sus needs to be filed. Use #Suggest-A-Thing when you want something done or changed, and #Ask-A-Thing when you aren't sure about something and want to ask. 0.5. If you DO NOT file #Support-Tickets or #Tell-Us-Things, we WILL NOT act on anything. Please do not gossip about problems in your friends' dms, greatest enemies' twitter, or your cat who forced his way into the bathroom while you're trying to take a piss... and expect something to be done. The mods and the ticket system are there for a reason. If you do not inform us of your problem or suggestion, we cannot do anything about it, and that means you will not get the thing you want, no matter how hard you think it. We are not psychic, and we do want to help ^_^ <3. If you want to ask a question, don't ASK TO ASK! Just ask! We aren't scary and we will never yell at you for asking a question or reporting something suspicious. 1. Keep a sense of humor and an open mind! :3 We're here to escape the BS of IRL! 2. Forgive yourself for your own mistakes! 3. Have all the fun (Or else)! 4. Be your cute self! So no "no u"ing! You ARE cute! We're all cute here & tryin for good feelies to heal from society's self shame! 😄 ❤️ 5. PROTECT your friends! Us #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets about stuff that is sus BEFORE it becomes a problem. 6. Be BRAVE and make mistakes! It means you're going to learn something new, not that you need to be punished. :3 DON'T: 7. Be a dick. 8. Join if you're a minor. Sorry! 9. Forget to agree to disagree with others on casual subjects instead of argue. 🤝 10. Disrespect everyone's right to entertainment & happiness as long as it's tasteful. 11. Ignore someone making you uncomfortable. Politely ask them to STOP. No one can read minds if you don't say something. 🤯 If they do not stop, please use #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets so that we can keep an eye on them to make sure they aren't hurting others, or if there is a miscommunication. 12. If you fill out #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets with "Hey I read the rules!" we will give you a special role. To show that you're cooler than the ones who didn't. 13. Don't say the S zoomer word. (Mondo will be very sad and you'll get a timeout) 14. Seriously though, don't say gamer words. In chat, in game, at reddit, in your bio, no excuses. We are wholesomely crude for the lulz, not wholesomely explicit for the horny or wholesomely controversial for the hot takes! DO: 14. Keep the 1099s and W2s to the taxes channel. Tastefully lewd jokes here or there in general chats are okay, but no NSFW imagery or extremely explicit content. 15. Post tasteful self-promo content in #💸⟝self-promo-rizz after you have reached lv. 10 in the discord. 16. Ask to be a partner in #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets instead of post it in the self-promo channel. 17. Keep posts and content in a generally positive or neutral light. If a post/link/etc is centered around bad feelings, controversy, scandals, hot takes, etc. consider the vent channel or another discord. 18. Use common sense, if it could hurt someone, don't post it. DON'T: 19. Discuss politics, religion, controversy, or scandals. This includes current events. There's a time and place, and it's not here. Please use #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets to get access to a server where this is acceptable. 20. Post disturbing content like gore, etc. 21. Mention kinks related to minors, lolicon, or anything else related 22. Use us as replacement for professional mental help. We have a vent channel for the occasional bad day. If you need access, make a ticket in #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets after you have reached lv. 10 in the discord. 23. Post info that is related to doxxing, stalking, or super personal information about yourself or others. Don't be a dick and you'll be fine. DO: 24. Give everyone the benefit of the doubt and ask questions before getting mad at them. We are adults. Communicate. 25. Leave people alone if they are not responding to you. The ball is in their court at that point. Leave 'em alone. Respect it. 26. Respect people's personal space if they ask you to got get close / to not touch them / etc. 27. Create a positive environment! Society kicks us down enough, we're trying to bring each other up. So respect yourself AND your friends! Please don't threaten or joke about violence towards others either. DON'T: 28. Be a dick or harass others. This includes things like unsolicited commissions, DMs, slander, general dickery, etc. 29. Act inappropriately and claim being drunk, high, or having a bad day as an excuse. 30. Call people out for being a dick in the chats, if there is an issue, please use #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets to ask if it was a misunderstanding or they are actually causing problems. 31. Contact someone that has blocked you. 32. Block mods or event hosts. If there is an issue, please use #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets. 33. Circumvent automod. (For example, by attempting to post @everyone) 34. Use avatars that are excessively lewd or have particles/projectiles/annoying sound/using a soundboard unless the event calls for it. 35. Continue doing something when someone says STOP! Stop means STOP! No exceptions. 36. If, after you tell someone to stop and they don't, that's breaking a very important rule: Don't be a dick. We don't want those people in our server. Please #Tell-Us-Things or #Support-Tickets so we can see if there was a misunderstanding or if we need to swing that ban hammer. <3 Tax-related rules Once you've been in the server for awhile and are more or less trusted, you can file taxes. 37. They're in the discord Thanks Thanks to Rekka and Renon for putting some of these together for us ^^ Looking for these? Rules (Old)‎